Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Bangga Tiada Dara?

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Salam...

Lama benar aku tidak menjejakkan kaki ke Bukit Bintang Plaza. Beberapa hari lepas aku singgah lah juga selepas pergi ke Low Yat untuk membeli barangan komputer aku. Sebenarnya aku malas untuk pergi ke sana sebab terlalu congested. Ramai bebenor manusia yang datang dan berpusu-pusu di situ untuk bershopping dan window shopping...rimas juga aku kadangkalanya.


Sedang aku wandering tidak tahu untuk membeli apa, aku terserempak dengan segerombolan gadis-gadis Melayu bawah umur yang cute mute. Aku jangkakan umur mereka hanya dalam lingkungan 13 ke 15 tahun melihatkan muka-muka mereka yang comel-comel serta keanak-anakan.

Cuma apa yang aku agak kureng ialah cara mereka berpakaian yang bagi aku agak tidak sesuai dan menjolok mata. Dengan baju yang terlalu singkat menampakkan pusat dan seluar jeans yang ketat seolah-olah sengaja dilondehkan (agaknya) yang menampakkan sebahagian alur punggung mereka. Sepatutnya, merekalah yang rasa malu tetapi aku pula yang terkulat-kulat menahan malu kerana terpaksa mengekori mereka yang berada di hadapan aku.

Semasa cuba bergegas untuk memotong mereka, aku terpandang di bahagian atas punggung mereka yang sedikit terdedah itu suatu tatoo yang agak jelas terrpampang walaupun kecil. Aku mengaku, aku memang telah berdosa kerana melihat aurat mereka dan aku memang rasa amat bersalah. Cuma, yang lebih membuatkan mata aku bulat ialah tulisan tatoo yang seolah-olah sengaja dipampangkan di kawasan aurat mereka yang menggiurkan itu, ".......NO VIRGIN".

Apa? Mereka semua sudah tiada dara? Masih di bawah umur sudah tiada dara?

Aku enggan mengulas tentang kehilangan dara semasa umur masih setahun jagung, tetapi, apa yang aku musykilkan ialah kenapa mereka seolah-olah begitu berbangga dengan diri mereka yang sudah tiada dara itu? Sanggup membuat tatoo menyatakan perihal status mereka itu.

Aku tiada hak untuk bersuara tentang status dara seseorang walaupun telah banyak berita di akhbar-akhbar yang melaporkan bahawa majoriti gadis-gadis di Malaysia ini kehilangan dara pada masa kini ialah di peringkat umur 13 ke 14 tahun.

Tetapi, perlukah mereka berbangga dan mempamerkan atau mencanangkan kepada semua orang tentang status mereka itu?

Aku cepat-cepat memintas mereka dan pulang ke rumah dengan seribu persoalan di minda.



Sekian.

57 Responses so far.

  1. Phoenix says:

    Pengaruh media massa telah mengubah cara berfikir anak muda skrg ni... Ibu bapa perlu lebih kuat mainkan peranan menjaga anak2 masing2..

  2. Khairil says:

    kurang didikan agama dan pengaruh media hiburan itulah punca utama yang jadi macam tu...

  3. sengal la n jahil.. tu lah dioerg bang long. Kita sebagai blogger kena tegur. Yang mak ayah kena tegur n didik. n pada pemimpin pulak mereka kena kuat kuasa undang2 n jaga persekitaran malaysia supaya menjadi persekitaran yang jauh dari maksiat..

    kita tegur, mak ayah didik, tapi kat luar, persekitran yang menghasut dan mengheret dioerg ni ke maksiat.. sebab tu skrg cikgu, n mak ayah tegur pun masalah masih berlaku.

    persekitran tu..

    tq lawat blog saya :-)
    sekadar pandanga peribadi..
    semua faktor memang beri impak.

  4. Selama mana mungkin kita akan berkongsi hidup dengan kemelut lagi menyesatkan... Satu bentuk tekanan hidup masakini. Marilah sama-sama kita membetulkan keadaan keluarga, sahabat dan kejiranan kita.

  5. brmcam2 ragam manusia skg ni..

    dh diberi didikan sekalipun tp xnk amalkan,xguna..

    ape2 pon kt dh mencuba apa yg terbaek..

  6. gejala sosial sgt berleluasa..sgt menakutkan..bukan kata pd gadis2 tp juga pada anak2 lelaki..itulah yg sgt membimbangkan.

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  8. Budak zaman sekarang, susah nak dibendung lagi abang long. haish. btw, thanks bg petua org tua pasal bawang merah. hehehe ;)

  9. Yastro says:

    bangga la kononnya tiada dara tu...sok2 bunting buang anak merata...tak ke keje bodo gitu....

    Sape buat fesyen camni, aku bg hadiah

  10. ozzy says:

    Assalam..

    Budak2 fikiran masih mentah..mmg makin menjadi2 sekarang ni..kita nak nasihat pun diaorg x nak terima

  11. kenelah kite didik dari awal..kesian budak2 sekarang byk di rosakkan oleh pengaruh luar tu..mm harap2 kite tak dosa jugak sbb gagal didik dorang

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