Friday, January 14, 2011

The beauty of Positive Thinking


Post kali ini merupakan salinan dari satu e-mail yang aku telah terima lama dahulu. Bukan bertujuan menciplak idea orang lain tetapi sekadar ingin mengingatkan diri serta berkongsi dengan anda yang mungkin belum pernah membacanya.

E-mail ini adalah berkenaan "Positive Thinking".

Kandungan e-mail ini adalah di dalam Bahasa Inggeris. Walaupun aku boleh sahaja menterjemahkannya ke dalam Bahasa Malaysia, aku rasa elok juga dibiarkan di dalam bahasa asalnya kerana ia lebih sampai ke hati (itu yang aku rasa). Maaflah jika ada di kalangan anda yang mungkin kurang arif di dalam Bahasa Inggeris.

Silalah baca dan kita sama-sama renungkan.


Jerry is the manager of a restaurant. He is always in a good mood. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would always reply,
"If I were any better, I would be twins!".

Many of the waiters at his restaurant quit their jobs when he changed jobs, so they could follow him around from restaurant to restaurant
Because Jerry was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was always there, telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him:
        "I don't get it! No one can be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"

Jerry replied,
"Each morning I wake up and say to myself, I have two choices today. I can choose to be in a good mood or I can choose to be in a bad mood.
 I always choose to be in a good mood.
Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be victim or I can choose to learn from it.
 I always choose to learn from it.
Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life.
I always choose the positive side of life."

"But it's not always that easy,“ I protested.

"Yes it is" Jerry said.
"Life is all about choices.
When you cut away all the junk every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood.
It's your choice how you live your life."

Several years later
I heard that Jerry accidentally did something you are never supposed to do in the restaurant business.
… He left the back door of his restaurant open
And then ???
In the morning, he was robbed by three armed men.
They Wanted $ *# $$$...
While Jerry trying to open the safe box, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination.
The robbers panicked and shot him.
Luckily, Jerry was found quickly and rushed to the hospital.
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care,
Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.…
I saw Jerry about six months after the accident.
When I asked him how he was,he replied,
"If I were any better, I'd be twins. 
Want to see my scars?"

I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place.

"The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door." Jerry replied. "Then, after they shot me, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or could choose to die.
I chose to live."

"Weren't you scared” I asked?

Jerry continued,
"The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the Emergency Room and I saw the expression on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'He's a dead man'. I knew I needed to take action."

"What did you do?" I asked.

"Well, there was a big nurse shouting questions at me" said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything.
'Yes,' I replied.
The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply.
I took a deep breath and yelled,

Over their laughter, I told them,
 I am choosing to live.
Please operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.

Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that
Every day you have the choice to either enjoy your life or to hate it.
The only thing that is truly yours -- that no one can control or take from you is your Attitude.
 So if you can take care of that, everything else in life becomes much easier.


Cerita di atas benar-benar memberi kesan di sanubari aku. Anda bagaimana?


5 Responses so far.

  1. gile positive gile jerry ni. susah nk +ve setiap mase tambah bila masa kegagalan.

  2. Salam Rockinsudu...susah nak jumpa org cam Jerry idola kita sudah tentulah Nabi S.A.W

  3. Cik Kamoo says:

    cerita yg bagus! dan beri saya semangat....saya suka blog nie. Thanks Abg Long

  4. Thanx Cik Kamoo,,cerita tu memang bagus dan lagi bagus kalau kita dapat mempraktikkannya..tapi mcm Rockinsudu kata, susah hendak diikut terutamanya bila masa kegagalan..yang penting kita cuba walaupun sedikit,

  5. cik aisha says:

    abg long, thanks bg link ke entry yg menarik ni..
    maybe jerry punye story ni rekaan, maybe gak yang penting ialah nilai positif yg ada dlm story ni dan dapat memotivasikan org yg membacanye...thanks...:)

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